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A letter For the Man Behind "I'm A 28-Year-Old Man And I'm About To Get Married For A Reason I Don't Understand"
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Dear, "I'm a 28-year-old man who's about to get married in the next few months or maybe a year for a reason I'm still trying to look for."
I just read your Article a few mins back and it led me to write this. Firstly, my consolidations are with you and I know exactly how you must be feeling. Secondly, Life is a puzzle that we all have to solve in our own ways and it is a journey that deserves all the more enjoyment while we are struggling to find our destinations. Last but not the least, I am a 26yr old woman who has vouched herself to be a devoted, loving & caring wife to the man who seeks for nothing but her soul. For her, her husband means the world to her and will always be his forever. So I exactly got the point when you stated that you are in doubt of marrying a woman who is careless, irresponsible & overconfident. Personally, if you ask me, would have felt the same if I was wearing your shoes. A marriage isn't a ramp-walk. It's a life-long, well-built & reliable vow that you vouch to make the most of that. It is a chapter that unfolds gradually with exciting opportunities & challenges two individuals as a couple ought to make & take. It is not easy to solely depend on oneself. It takes two to tango, as they say. I gather that as a young man yourself, it is difficult to open up to your parents regarding how the feelings & turmoils are breaking you and unassurity is surrounding those emotions. Maybe, at this point you are torn apart between two decisions. One, the obvious thing is that you would like to obey your Dad and do as he asked of you. Whereas, the other obvious thing could be that you approach your parents regarding this matter and explain in great detail of all that you are feeling.....be it somewhat difficult to make others understand but at least if it is out there in the open, you can at least be a little stress-free & calm.
Often I have seen that people of our generation fears opening up to our parents. The grieve of getting rejected cause of their thoughts/illusions, haunts them to such an extent that silence becomes their best friend. I, on the other-hand, am more of parents' puppet. My fear is exactly opposite. If I don't share my problems or at least have them hear them then maybe I won't be able to overcome them. Sharing my problems with my parents gives me confidence that I can conquer all battles of life, come what may! So, my fear subsides and I feel calm & organized. I hope you got my point.
At this point, it is still unclear about where you are standing. Whether, you are married/engaged or have spoken to your parents. But whatsoever you may have decided, am sure that you will FOLLOW YOUR HEART and be less confused. Just take deep breathes and concise your brain to think of every step you take thoroughly. Please be a wise man and DO NOT let your guards down. DO NOT be hasten and regret afterwards. Be positive and, if you are in doubt of the choices you are making then please take more time and think of the consequences beforehand. It's your life. You have all the right to do the best for yourself. I hope you make the most of your Life by taking the right decisions. I wish you all the best for everything. Stay safe! Feel free to contact me any time. I will link my Face Book in my profile. Please go ahead and contact me. Would love to hear from you!
I just read your Article a few mins back and it led me to write this. Firstly, my consolidations are with you and I know exactly how you must be feeling. Secondly, Life is a puzzle that we all have to solve in our own ways and it is a journey that deserves all the more enjoyment while we are struggling to find our destinations. Last but not the least, I am a 26yr old woman who has vouched herself to be a devoted, loving & caring wife to the man who seeks for nothing but her soul. For her, her husband means the world to her and will always be his forever. So I exactly got the point when you stated that you are in doubt of marrying a woman who is careless, irresponsible & overconfident. Personally, if you ask me, would have felt the same if I was wearing your shoes. A marriage isn't a ramp-walk. It's a life-long, well-built & reliable vow that you vouch to make the most of that. It is a chapter that unfolds gradually with exciting opportunities & challenges two individuals as a couple ought to make & take. It is not easy to solely depend on oneself. It takes two to tango, as they say. I gather that as a young man yourself, it is difficult to open up to your parents regarding how the feelings & turmoils are breaking you and unassurity is surrounding those emotions. Maybe, at this point you are torn apart between two decisions. One, the obvious thing is that you would like to obey your Dad and do as he asked of you. Whereas, the other obvious thing could be that you approach your parents regarding this matter and explain in great detail of all that you are feeling.....be it somewhat difficult to make others understand but at least if it is out there in the open, you can at least be a little stress-free & calm.
Often I have seen that people of our generation fears opening up to our parents. The grieve of getting rejected cause of their thoughts/illusions, haunts them to such an extent that silence becomes their best friend. I, on the other-hand, am more of parents' puppet. My fear is exactly opposite. If I don't share my problems or at least have them hear them then maybe I won't be able to overcome them. Sharing my problems with my parents gives me confidence that I can conquer all battles of life, come what may! So, my fear subsides and I feel calm & organized. I hope you got my point.
At this point, it is still unclear about where you are standing. Whether, you are married/engaged or have spoken to your parents. But whatsoever you may have decided, am sure that you will FOLLOW YOUR HEART and be less confused. Just take deep breathes and concise your brain to think of every step you take thoroughly. Please be a wise man and DO NOT let your guards down. DO NOT be hasten and regret afterwards. Be positive and, if you are in doubt of the choices you are making then please take more time and think of the consequences beforehand. It's your life. You have all the right to do the best for yourself. I hope you make the most of your Life by taking the right decisions. I wish you all the best for everything. Stay safe! Feel free to contact me any time. I will link my Face Book in my profile. Please go ahead and contact me. Would love to hear from you!
