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I Was About To Leave My Cheating Husband, But This Is Why I Changed My Mind

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Sometimes a second chance becomes a life-changing moment. My life changed the second I married the love of my life. I found out that my husband was cheating on me the day I married him. He had loved me unconditionally for the past 3 years. I felt no one can ever love me and understand me the way he did.

He was a dream come true in my life. That day was the best day of my life but only for a couple of days. I came to know after our marriage that he was going out with some married woman.

When I confronted him, he denied it. We did not live in the same city because of which it was very hard for me to find out the truth.

After several arguments with my husband, I managed to message the husband of the girl, who told me that she has gone out with multiple men and he hasn’t been able to do anything about it.

I was shattered. When I finally went to meet him after 3-4 months, I confronted both of them together. I told him that it will be best if he lets go off me peacefully.

He begged me for that one last chance. I thought he did not deserve it. I was so close to leaving that night but I had to stay at his place that night because my flight was the next morning. I felt so alone being away from my family. That night, I saw the pain in his eyes, I know he wanted me back but I was long gone.

I managed to be strong in front of him and told him that I will be divorcing him as soon as I get back home. That was the night I regretted marrying the guy I loved. My husband asked for one last chance and begged for just 15 days to convince me. I thought, 15 days means nothing so I give him that.

Today, those 15 days have changed to 2 years. He did everything he could to make it okay. He was ashamed of what he did.

We all make mistakes and we all learn from them. I learnt marriage is not about divorcing, it is about making it work out.

I know my husband was wrong but the strangest thing about the whole episode was the girl. She would send us their conversations and photographs secretly. She claimed to love my husband but was with someone else just two days after I got involved. I feel bad for her husband who stills wants her back.

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