Dear Husband,

When I came into your family, I knew I was willing to give everything I had to make you happy. I gave away my surname, my identity and my dreams. I treated your parents like my parents. Your brother and sister became my best friends in no time.

My parents had taught me well; they had told me be respectful and to keep your feelings above mine and I did exactly that. Where did I go wrong? When did you stop respecting me?

I feel unwanted and unworthy of your love now. I have the choice of walking away but I won’t do that because I love you and I love your family.

Where did I go wrong? Did I not put in enough efforts to make you happy?  I did not answer your phone once and you thought I was having an affair with someone else? You thought I was unfaithful? I can be, I should be, but I won’t. No. You know why? Because of love. 

When we took the vows, you told me you loved me. What happened then? Where did the love disappear? You ripped apart my soul and I still loved you from the broken pieces. 

I am waiting, waiting for you to answer these questions for me. I want to give up on certain days but I stop myself because I love you, I don’t know why but I do. What can I do to make this better?

Please answer these questions for me before it gets too late.

Still waiting for your love,
The woman you married.

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