He Continued His Relationship With Me And His Wife But He Regrets Nothing

Anonymous Anonymous in Single Women Bad Women on 9 August, 2017

I was 21 and fell in love with a guy from my college while studying MBA. It was initially an infatuation but I was led to falling in love by seeing similar feelings in my partner. This went on and there came a stage when we both got committed. Families got involved and we parted to different cities for jobs. We were involved physically as well.

After 2 to 3 years, differences started to surface. We still strongly felt about each other so we never let it spoil our relationship. But one day we fought because of a small mistake from my end. He made me feel so guilty and broke up with me.

I tried to convince him. But he ignored me completely. Then after a year of break up, I finally got a chance to speak to him just to realise that he had married another girl. My love for him was so strong that I could not stay without him. Since then it has been 5 years. He says that he loves me. We are physically involved but he can't marry me.


He asks me to move on. He is equally involved with his wife and even after he got multiple chances of divorce, he still begged her to stay in his life even though they were not compatible.

I have given 10 years of my life to him. It was never easy to let him go after accepting all his faults. I loved him with all my heart but today I am in such a state of mind that ending my life seems easier. He also got involved with his ex-girlfriend for past 3 years during maintaining simultaneous relationships with his wife and me.

After playing with all of us, he still puts up a happy face and regrets nothing. What judgement has fate for him?