It was my first mistake and I called it love. I was a very typical person; had a few friends, went to office every day, and did not believe in love or promises.
One day, a friend told me about this app called 'wechat'. I downloaded the app and happened to meet this girl called H.F who turned my life around. I texted her and she replied.
I made it very clear that I was not looking for anything and that we’ll only be friends. She agreed. I really like the fact that she never cross-questioned me.
Then this one particular day she said she wanted to see me. We decided to meet at a particular place. That day at night, she messaged me saying she likes my eyes and smile. We spoke for hours and I felt good. I was still scared of love and was hoping I don’t fall for her.
Then the moment arrived; she told me she was in love with me.
I told her I can’t commit to her because my parents won’t agree f or a love marriage anyway. After this, she would call me 100 times a day, stand in front of my workplace. She told me she didn’t need a commitment and I was okay with that.
3 years passed by and I never said 'I love you' to her. She made me believe that I am the one for her, she made me leave my work because she said I could do much better. I trusted her blindly and that was the biggest mistake of my life.
She cheated on me by sleeping with her college friend and started avoiding me.
When I confronted her she told me that it was a mistake and that she got carried away. She still wanted to be with me so I forgave her. She did it again. She cheated on me for the second time. This time, she cried and begged and really desperately wanted to get back to me. I took her back.
However, the guy she slept with started stalking her and showing me her sexts. He threatened both of us and got goons to my place. All this stopped after we filed a police complaint against that guy.
When he came out of the jail after a year, he apologized to my girlfriend and she left me for him. My image in the society was completely ruined. I paid a price for being loyal and honest.