I Was Too Old To Be Marriage Material For Him But He Was Okay Having Sex With Me

Anonymous Anonymous in Dirty Picture on 2 May, 2018

Aap koi sati savitri nahin hain”. These six words are not allowing me to rest ever since I heard them.

These words said by my ex-boyfriend basically mean, “I can have sex with you at regular intervals and only because you are not a virgin. However, if you ask for more than that, for instance, marriage then sorry, you are not allowed to because you are not pious enough.” The fact that I am older than the guy, his senior in office, and earning more than him, did not help either.

It all started when my parents started looking for a suitable match for me. There was this guy I liked in office. Through a common friend, I tried to broach the subject with him. He responded by asking for some time to talk to his family.
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A few days later, he called me and requested to meet me. We started dating. We shared all sorts of things with each other, but it seemed like he was so interested in my past. That is when he came to know about my past relationship. I know I made a mistake when I told him the truth. I should have lied, denied point blank. I should have said I had no one in my life. Being the bespectacled mousy geeky type, I could have easily pulled it off.

Yet I was honest because I wanted to be so.

Slowly and eventually, we came so close we were chatting every waking hour and one fine day, it rained. We were drenched and alone. We went home, and we had the best sex ever. That opened the door of a clandestine relationship for us. I did not understand it that time; now I do. It was just the sex for him and I foolishly thought I had made a place in his life. I was mistaken, which became evident when I came to know about his marriage plans. I confronted him and got this in return, “You are older than me and my family will never let me marry someone older than me. Also, you are not dependent on anyone, so you can surely handle this. Please let me marry her”. My competition is 23-24 years old, pursuing graduation and has never been out of her family’s sight. Unlike me who is 32, a post-graduate and working.

Most importantly, I was in a relationship before and not to forget that I had sex with him as well. Also, I stay away from my family, owing to my place of work. So I guess I am not a good match for anyone, right?
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