Cheating break-up abusive relationship

I Thought Young Love Was Beautiful Until My Boyfriend's Hidden Folders Told The Truth

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I met this guy when I was 18 years old. We started talking to each other and next thing I know, I was falling for him. We dated for about six and a half years. He was caring, always there for me and was patient with me, when it came to the physical aspect of our relationship.

It wasn’t long before he started asking me for money. He said he needed it to find a good job so that he could proudly ask my parents for my hand in marriage.  

I never hesitated to give him the money. He started going on trips around the globe, started calling them ‘business trips’.

I began noticing some changes in his behavior. He didn’t seem interested in me anymore, and even began abusing me. The only time he spoke to me was when he needed more money. One day, he gave me his laptop, I noticed some pictures of a woman. Sensing something was off, I began searching through his hidden folders.

That’s when I discovered his awful truth: he was using another girl for sex, and me, for money.

This had been going on for over a year now. I confronted him about it and he told me that I was making a big deal out of nothing. Apparently, it was just one kiss. I immediately reached out to the girl in the pictures.

She told me that he had a huge crush on her and was stalking her profile for seven years.

Finally, she gave in and they had been meeting, going on trips and so on for one whole year. I broke up with him immediately. I couldn’t digest the fact that I was cheated on by a man I loved and cared about like this. He begged me not to. Kept calling me and telling me these sentimental stories about how he would return my money, how he’d made a mistake, and how it was only me whom he loved.

It’s been over two years now and when I ask him about the four lakhs he owes me, he only has excuses.

I reached out to his parents eventually. At first, they were shocked and agreed to help me get the money from him, but within a few weeks, his father started accusing me of cheating him out of that money! All that hard-earned money, which I was saving for my future, wasted on him.

He sent me texts asking me to spend a night with him, if I wanted my money back.

I feel so stupid to have loved, and worse, been cheated on, by a moron like him. 

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