I Made The Mistake Of Trusting My Boyfriend And Paid A Heavy Price For It
My story is a lesson… a lesson that I learnt from trusting someone repeatedly, only to have that trust broken, every single time.
It was a bad time at home. I was dying to study a course of my dreams but my parents got me admitted to another one, which I had no interest in. Our house was filled with fights between my parents and me. I was so depressed. I felt lost and lonely with no love and care at home.
That’s when I met my ex – boyfriend. It was August 15 and I thought that I was finally getting my much-needed independence. What a fool I was! We got into a relationship in the same year.
Only later did I realize that all he wanted was sex!
It went really well for the first four months. Then his mom complained to my dad about our relationship. I was immediately put under house arrest. But he would still come to meet me at night and comfort me. I thought that he really loved me.
What I didn't know was that I was one among his several girlfriends! He was neither a good student nor a good son. Just a total jerk who was not even able to complete his education.
I knew that he was not ideal for me, but I stayed in the relationship foolishly thinking that I could change him. I was a stupid true lover!
After about 8 months of our relationship, I found out that he was having an affair with his so-called sister who was a friend, just because she was willing to have sex with him in the theatre when they went to watch a movie. I was shocked!
I confronted him but he was a good liar. And so I trusted him once again, which was the biggest mistake of my life!
We continued to have fights in the long run because of all the other girls that he kept having affairs with. I kept forgiving him and made the mistake of trusting him over and over again. This went on for about 2 years.
In the meanwhile, I even went against my parents! I joined the course of my dreams and was doing very well. I was always the class topper. But this guy was a sadist, he just couldn’t see me happy. He started torturing me mentally and emotionally every time I was unable to meet him.
He kept accusing me of things that I’d not done. Yet, I was stupid to not be able to see his real face.
It was our third anniversary and I found out that he was again having an affair with the same so-called sister. It had been going on for a year! I decided to speak to him about the b***h and clear all the misunderstandings. I told him that since it was our anniversary, I would meet him at his house.
I was about 15 minutes late in reaching his place and as soon as I entered his room, he started verbally abusing me! He said that I’d have to have sex with him right then and there to prove that I was loyal to him!
When I refused, he pulled the collar of my uniform coat, slapped me hard and pushed me to the ground. He kicked me hard thrice in the abdomen!
Because of which I now have irregular periods and future pregnancy complications. It took me about 20 minutes to bear the pain and try and stand up. As soon as I was able to stand, I grabbed him by his collar and kicked his p***s very hard, for which he is still getting treatment.
Little did I know that I was his back up when he was bored. Little did I know that his mother and sister were supporters of all his evil acts.
That day, I walked away from him and never turned back! I still get nightmares and I know that it will be very hard for me to trust someone again. But I’m just focusing on my dreams and trying to move on in life.