I Loved Her With All My Heart But She Chose A Married Man Over Me: It Changed Me Forever
This happened to me 2 years ago and the pain is still as fresh as the day she left me.Share this quote
I had recently joined an MNC. We had both got a transfer to Bangalore and were working on the same project. I remember the day I first saw her; she was an ordinary girl. Not too beautiful, belonged to the middle class. Since we were on the same project we started interacting more often.
Slowly, I became really fond of her; her independent aura, how she took decisions and followed through. I fell for her without even knowing it. For the first time in my life my heart was not in my control. With the very sight of her, my heart skipped a beat.Share this quote
As we started spending more and more time with each other, I thought she had developed feelings for me too. I started flirting with her and make jokes about us being together. It was all very subtle.
She warned me then, she warned me not to fall in love with her. I stupidly replied saying, “If I fall in love with you, it will me my issue. Not yours.”Share this quote
On one fateful day, I proposed to her. She cried and declined my proposal. I didn’t know what to do. This was the first time I had asked out a girl and to be rejected without a reason was heartbreaking. I insisted she tells me the reason at least.
She told me she was having an affair with her boss. Our boss. A married man.Share this quote
I asked her what all of that meant in that case? Why were we spending so much time together? She replied saying, “You are a friend”. That was the last time I thought about being in love with any girl. Now I can’t feel that emotion. I moved on and other girls did come into my life but I am heartless now.
I have wronged many girls because of that one girl and I do feel guilty about it.Share this quote
I am sharing this story because I want girls to know that a playboy is born because his heart was broken once. He was once a genuine guy who loved truly. I also request guys to stop taking revenge, it is unfair and harms you in the long run.
Lastly I want to say she was not wrong, someone was playing with her too. She was also cheated on. I don’t know what is right or wrong, you be the judge.
They say everything is fair in love and war but is it? Revenge, love, heartbreak are all complex emotions but one must remember to be human first.