I Dated A Girl For 8 Years And She Used This Sick Reason To Break Up With Me

Anonymous Anonymous in Life Is Tough on 31 May, 2017

I am a simple boy. My ex-girlfriend used me for eight years and then left me in a way that I blamed myself for ruining her life. I ended up in depression.

The first six years were very good and things moved gradually. I was madly in love and she was the girl of my dreams. Our relationship took a new turn when we grew closer physically. One day, she came and told me she had an abortion. I had no idea she was pregnant.

I felt awful but I promised to never leave her. Things became normal eventually and two more went by quickly.

Then came the day when she told me she can’t be with me. No explanation. No reason. When I asked for the reason she told me because of the abortion stitches, she could never conceive. 

She told me she needed a surgery to cure her but she will never be normal again even post the surgery. I wanted to be with her during these tough times and I begged her not to leave me. I told her I will be there for her no matter what but she just wouldn’t listen. She left me. I felt so guilty that I couldn’t deal with it.

I was too dumb to understand that this was a cooked up story. She just wanted to get rid of me. The guilt killed me each day. I spoilt her life; it was because of me that she could not conceive again.

One year later, I got a text from her and we met up again.

She told me it was tough for her but she went through the surgery and I told her I wanted to be with her still. She told me she was with someone else now; that her family was getting her married to another guy she doesn’t know.

I felt so terrible for her but it was only later that I found out that she was lying. She wasn’t getting married, she was just casually ruining another guy’s’ life.

That pregnancy never happened. I was so relieved.

I have heard that men are beasts but I experienced the opposite. It taught me to never trust anyone again. Life is good now and I am a happy human. I really hope to leave this incident behind some day and find true love.

Author's Note:

This story would raise a lot of questions. Why the hell did I not find out earlier? How can I be so silly? But love actually is blind and I was madly and truly in love. I never even thought she could possibly be using me like this.