I Fell In Love With A Man Who Erased My Entire Horrible Past

Anonymous Anonymous in Your Story on 30 November, 2017

It all started when I shifted school in my senior years. I was a fat and dark girl who never got much love, even from my family.

After two failed relationships in the new school, I decided to give up on love.

Cut to the 11th grade when BBM was a cool thing to do. I started talking to one of my juniors at that time. Eventually, I got really close to him and developed a thing for him. Since he was a popular kid, and I was still the ugly girl, I decided to keep quiet.

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As time went by, my feelings for him grew stronger. Only this time, I could feel something on his end too. How I wish I had given up at that time itself. It was after my boards, that I got the courage to express my feelings to him. To my luck, he felt the same for me.

So I decided to give it a shot, despite his Casanova image. We were both in an "unofficial relationship", which means no one knew about us. We would text all day, speak on the phone 2-3 times a week, and barely met. I was still happy with what we had.

A few months later, he confessed to cheating on me. I broke down. I ended our thing and blocked him everywhere.

Then he contacted me and pleaded to get back with him. I decided to forgive him; however, I was suspicious of his behaviour by now. A few months passed, and he was supposed to shift to a different city for his graduation. I was sad about it but decided to go with the flow.

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We continued a long distance, until one day, my best friend called his best friend and put me on a conference and I got to know of everything he was doing. I cried my heart out and broke up with him again.

As they say, once a cheater always a repeater.

The worst thing he did was on my birthday. He sent me a simple text saying he couldn’t make it and called the next afternoon. I later got to know through his best friend that he hooked up with a girl on my birthday eve.

I was actually glad then that he moved to another city. By this time, I had lost weight and was getting a lot of love and attention from everywhere.

One day, out of the blue, he called me and cried. He admitted to everything and I, being stupid and in love, forgave him again. Things were smooth after that. Whenever he would come to the city we would meet and he was more loving and caring. But then, the third time, I got to know that he was being promiscuous again and decided to give up altogether.

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All through this relationship, I begged and cried for him to accept me officially. He never did. I was just cheated in return. Yes, I am at fault too. I was madly in love.

Today I have moved on and found someone I can call my man, someone who loves me and respects me.

My ex still tries to contact me, but I don't give a damn anymore. My man has given me so much love that I don't even remember my ex or don't even feel like any of the past was real. 

Wherever you are, I hope you don't treat anyone this way ever again. A girl’s heart is not to be played with, and we are not commodities.

 

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